Steven Coppens had already spent most of his lifetime battling illness before his autoimmune disease took yet another toll seven years ago, leaving him in a wheelchair.
But, the 31-year-old Belgian says in a gravelly voice, he’s still the man he once was, and he has the same desires as anyone in the prime of life.
“In the beginning I had to adapt to life in a wheelchair. And over the first years, sex came second. But after a while, it does come back,” said Coppens, who lives about 30 kilometers (20 miles) outside Brussels.
That was when he went looking for escorts on the Internet.
“Those girls show up and you realize they have a problem with this and are scared off. And at this point, I’m not even talking about the prices they ask for,” he said. “Just imagine that for some reason you cannot have a girl. You keep on looking. A man in a wheelchair still has the same sexual drive.”
Coppens now volunteers with Aditi, a Belgian organization dedicated to helping the disabled in their search for sexual fulfillment. And he supports the use of “sex surrogates” — people who are paid specifically to help disabled people explore their sexuality.
Belgian law often leaves the sale of sex in a legal gray area, allowing for some sexual services for people with severe disabilities. In neighboring France, however, a tense debate on the topic is just beginning.
The question came up after an official near Paris called for allowing sex assistants as part of the publicly funded social services offered to those, he said, who were least able to “discover their sexuality and their bodies.”
The Socialist politician, Jerome Guedj, pulled the most contentious proposal Monday, just ahead of the vote in the local council, removing the term “sex surrogates” after coming under criticism for opening the door to legalized prostitution. Instead, the council agreed for now to open a “reflection on the sexual life of the disabled.”
It wasn’t what activists for France‘s disabled community were hoping for.
“Sexuality doesn’t take disability into consideration. It’s in human nature,” said Pascale Ribes, vice president of the French Association for the Paralyzed, which has pressed for …read more
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