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Kay Hagan Backs Gay Marriage

By The Huffington Post News Editors

Sen. Kay Hagan (D-N.C.) became the latest Democratic senator to endorse gay marriage, announcing her switch Wednesday as the Supreme Court hears the first oral arguments for the constitutionality of the Defense of Marriage Act.

“I know there are strong feelings on both sides, and I have a great deal of respect for their opinions,” Hagan told the News & Observer. “But after much thought and prayer on my part this is where I am today.”

“After conversations I’ve had with family members, with people I go to church with and with North Carolinians from all walks of life, I’ve come to my own personal conclusion that we should not tell people who they can love, or who they can marry,” she added. “It’s time to move forward with this issue.”

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North Carolina church vows to stop marriages until same-sex couples can wed

By Joshua Rhett Miller

A church in North Carolina will stop performing marriages until United Methodist pastors are allowed to officiate weddings for same-sex couples in the Tar Heel state.

The Green Street United Methodist Church in Winston-Salem made the announcement on its Facebook page on Friday and held a press conference on Sunday detailing its plan. The Rev. Kelly Carpenter told FoxNews.com on Monday that his 400-member congregation and its 18-member Leadership Council have long considered the move.

“Many people in our church have been very active about marriage equality in North Carolina, so we’re not new to talking about this issue,” Carpenter said. “So over the past year, this statement has developed, and not only to the state of North Carolina, but also to the United Methodist Church in regards to the injustice of not being able to conduct same-sex weddings.”

Neither the state nor the United Methodist Church sanctions same-sex marriages. With the U.S. Supreme Court set to consider two key same-sex marriageissues later this month, Carpenter said the “timing seemed to be good,” referring to the announcement. Feedback from the congregation, which includes at least 15 gay and lesbian couples, has been overwhelmingly positive, he said.

“Inside the congregation, I’ve heard nothing but support,” Carpenter said, adding that he also received some critical emails from non-active worshippers.

In a statement on its website, church officials declared that committed same-sex relationships are “no less sacred” as heterosexual unions.

“Couples making a commitment to one another need a supportive community of faith to sustain and uphold them so as to grow in faith and love,” the statement read. “Weddings are the occasion for covenant making, a time to seek God’s blessing on their commitment to one another. When a couple chooses to be married in the church, they should also be conscious that they are making a declaration of their relationship as a new ministry for the congregation and the world. At Green Street Church, we claim the committed same-sex relationships as no less sacred in their ministry to us and the community.”

United Methodist Church officials did not immediately respond to a request for comment early Monday.

Tami Fitzgerald, executive director of the NC Values Coalition, said neither the state nor the church has the right to redefine marriage.

“Marriage has always been understood as a union of one man and one woman — both biblically and culturally — and last May over 60 percent of North Carolinians voted to keep it that way,” Fitzgerald told FoxNews.com in a statement.

Nine states — including Connecticut, Iowa and Maryland — and the District of Columbia currently allow same-sex marriages. Most states have incorporated prohibitions of same-sex marriage by adopting so-called “defense of marriage” language defining marriage in state constitutions similar to language in the federal Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA) — “the word ‘marriage’ means only a legal union between one man and one woman as husband and wife.” Furthermore, roughly 42 percent of the U.S. population lives in a state that provides some form of protections for gay couples, according to …read more
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