A former submarine commander who faked his death to end an extramarital affair should be honorably discharged from the Navy, a panel of officers recommended Friday after a daylong hearing in which the officer said he accepted “full and total accountability” for his behavior.

Cmdr. Michael P. Ward II, a married 43-year-old, sent his mistress in Virginia an email in July posing as a fictitious co-worker named Bob and saying Ward had died unexpectedly, a Navy investigation found. Ward was relieved of his duties aboard the USS Pittsburgh in August, a week after he’d taken command, and has received a letter of reprimand for adultery and other military violations.

After testimony from Ward’s former superior officers, colleagues and shipmates, Ward himself, in his dress blues, acknowledged to the panel that he had had an affair and sent the bogus email to the woman in an effort to end it.

“The reason I did it was to sever the relationship,” he said, “but the choice was ridiculous.”

He also apologized to the Navy and the sailors who served under him.

The three-officer panel recommended he retain his rank upon being discharged. Their decision goes to the secretary of the Navy for approval within 90 days.

During the hearing, the government countered that Ward discredited the Navy and that his removal put a strain on the fleet because officers had to be shuffled around to cover his removal.

“Commander Ward‘s actions show a complete lack of honesty, character and integrity,” said Navy Lt. Griffin Farris, acting as prosecutor at the hearing.

Ward said he accepted full responsibility for his actions and would regret them all his life, adding that he was grateful to his wife for standing by him.

“I want to apologize directly to my wife for the hurt and harm and humiliation I have caused her,” he said as she sat in the front row, her eyes red.

Still, the Navy shouldn’t throw away his talent and training, said high-ranking officers whom Ward has served under. They said he made an awful mistake and that he was a fast-rising, hard-working officer. He was honest with his chain of command from the beginning, his lawyer added.

“This man probably would have been an admiral someday, and he’s brought shame on himself and he knows that,” said Navy Cmdr. Daniel Cimmino, representing Ward.

But a senior enlisted sailor from the USS Pittsburgh told the panel that Ward at first denied the accusations.

The sailor, Master Chief Chris Beauprez, said he received a call on the submarine from a sister of Ward’s girlfriend, who told him what Ward had done.

Beauprez said he told Ward about the call and Ward denied the woman’s allegations, then said he’d address the situation himself. Beauprez testified that he had an implicit trust in what his commander said so he didn’t take the matter up any further.

Days later, he said, he heard Ward was being dismissed.

A fellow Navy officer who had gone through training with Ward, Anthony Moore, testified that he heard about the affair when news of it first surfaced

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